Homemade Porn Videos

Let me first say that I love homemade porn. It's mainly because it's not fake like a lot of professional porn (I hate fakeness). That said, I have some major issues with it. For starters, how can anyone have sex with the television running? Seriously, it is tough getting in the mood when American Idol's in the background, interrupted by commercials for soup or whatever. Have the decency to turn off the damn tv.

The same goes for broadcast radio. No one wants to hear commercials about the I Heart Radio Festival giveaway while you're getting a blowjob. People need to download an internet radio app or something; preferably, one that only plays music with no commercials.

Also, can anyone seriously fuck to rap music? Maybe I'm getting older but the rap music of today is nothing like rap of even 10 years ago. It's like Jugs magazine compared to Playboy. One is classy nudes. The other is a pussy mag pretending to be porn. I'll leave you to figure out whether today's rap is Jugs or Playboy but there's really nothing romantic about fucking to today's rap music. I'm not saying that I don't like today's stuff. Actually, yes I am. It sucks and not in a good way. Just saying.

Conferences and Clubs

Someone asked me a while back how I've gotten to sleep with beautiful women. After all, I'm not rich (yet). I'm also not Denzel or "insert latest muscular Black male sex symbol here" although I'm not bad looking. In fact, I'm clean cut, baby faced good looking, if I don't say so myself. The reason for my success is simple, really. It's my job. Rather, it's the perks that come with my job.

I originally worked in the nightclub industry. My old company supplied different facets of product to nightclubs. One of the benefits (or drawbacks for those who hate traveling) was going to conventions and conferences. There were lots of ladies that got stuck going to those things and those ladies tended to be very beautiful, in order to get their mainly male clientele to buy product or services. Those ladies were also lonely and stuck in hotels a lot. Plus, they figured that, to paraphrase the Vegas tag line, what happened at conferences stayed at conferences. They can misbehave, have as much sex as they wanted, and their boyfriends or husbands wouldn't be the wiser. That made for lots of fun and opportunities for me. Since I still go to conferences, those opportunities still exist..

The company that I've created now is expanding the nightclub aspect to include all forms of media and other entertainment. This has lead to another benefit; which is that I either know people who run clubs or I know people who know the guys who run the clubs. That means always getting into vip.

Now, I've never been one who got off on being in vip. Those people who use Twitter have probably seen idiots talking about being at this party with celebs or popping bottles up in that vip with celebs or whoever. I'm never impressed by that. For starters, most of those people who brag about partying with a celeb are only in the same room as that celeb and never even meet that person. Those people are sad and pathetic, as far as I'm concerned. I actually kind of pity them. They're star fuckers. That being said, the women who party in vip are usually hot, drunk, and/or horny and if they're interested, I'm always down.

The standard rule with clubs is that you couldn't do drugs or have sex in them and for the most part, that's true. However, there are more than a few clubs who turn a blind eye to that behavior, especially if a celeb is involved. As many things as I've done in life, the one thing that I have never done and never would do is drugs. I also don't do women who are using drugs. Maybe if they're using ecstasy but that's about it. If they're using coke, meth, heroin or whatever, then no. I don't care how hot they are or how famous they may be. It's just my personal preference and a complete turn off to me. A person's life is their life but if they're coking, I'm not going to do a damn thing with them. I'm not sure why it's the only moral I've managed to have but so be it.

Do I have sex with any celebs? A few. None too famous, though. I suppose I could just sell out a lot of people to TMZ but nah. Celebs are people, too, who are out to have a good time and get freaky. There's no need for the media to find out about these things. Besides, it's not like I'm an angel. I just like to have my fun and if I like to, why couldn't celebs? I give them their space.

How to Approach Women

Someone asked me the other day that when I approach a girl in the club, do I have a certain strategy that I go by?  Normally, I don’t approach women in clubs. I usually know the person that the woman is with and I get to know them that way. However, whenever I approach any woman (and I know this is going to be corny but it's true), the only strategy I have is to be myself. Pretending to be what you are not is never a good strategy.

When I was younger, I tried every pick up line and every strategy in the book. They never, ever worked. Quality women see through that shit all the time. In fact, if I could go back in time and meet my younger self, I’d smack him silly. Then, I’d tell him what numbers to play in every big lottery jackpot. 

Don't lie about yourself, either. Eventually, you will be found out. Then, she won't trust you and rightfully so. It's a very small world, whether you've realized this or not, and word travels fast. If you lie to a woman or play games with a woman's heart, it WILL get out and you'll be branded a liar. Then, your chances of getting any will be cut by 90% or more. 

Playing games is never a good thing so I don’t play them. That advice goes for women as well as men. In fact, everything I’m writing here goes for both genders. Being yourself works, unless you’re an idiot and you know it. If that’s the case, lie your ass off and start trying to become a better person. 

One of my basic rules is that if the woman doesn't like you, move on. No definitely means no. You've asked a stupid question once, maybe pressed your luck twice just to be sure she's not playing some "hard to get" game and she still says no to whatever you're looking for? Then absolutely move on. There are plenty of other women out there if you have the patience. Never look or act desperate. You do stupid things or worse when you are. Don't be THAT guy. Quench your thirst elsewhere.

If a woman’s just cock teasing you to get drinks or something materialistic out of you, definitely move on immediately before you go broke. That woman is someone who’s into manipulating, is definitely not trustworthy, and is completely not worth the time. Besides, she thinks that you’re stupid and has zero respect for you so why bother? The good ones don’t need to manipulate. In fact, the only way I'd get with a woman like that is if I know I'm going to get some sex out of it. 9 times out of 10, though, you won't. She's just using you to fund her night out. Move on.

I always like women who know what they want and don’t have to play games. Women know pretty much immediately if they’re going to sleep with you or not; whether they admit it or not. Game playing, by either a man or a woman, should not enter into the equation. If it does, move on. Games are for little kids. Don't be one. Always be childlike; never childish.

Is Google Done Playing Now?

I've toyed around with the idea of coming back and doing this blog again. The first time I did, I decided to not tell any more erotic stories. I'm doing ebooks with them. I figured at that time, I'd just put up some embedded porn clips that I liked for people to enjoy. Then, Google did its now famous warning, threatening to take away everyone's right to free speech, etc. That sent me away, almost for good. I stripped my posts & turned the blog completely private.

Then, Google did its mea culpa but I still stayed away. However, creatives like myself and others need an outlet to share ourselves. It's simply who we are so I rested on coming back. Since I'm gathering my stories together for my books, along with operating my businesses, would I have time to do a blog? If so, what would I put on it?

What I decided upon was to use this blog as a companion to my ebooks. This will be a collection of my thoughts, whereas the ebooks will be collections of my stories; both old and new. I'll post at least once a week, either on Saturdays or Sundays. They probably won't be as good as my sex stories but they'll be personal. I won't spout off about religion or politics (ok, I'll try not to). Hopefully, you'll still enjoy them.