Someone asked me the other day that when I approach a girl in the club, do I have a certain strategy that I go by? Normally, I don’t approach women in clubs. I usually know the person that the woman is with and I get to know them that way. However, whenever I approach any woman (and I know this is going to be corny but it's true), the only strategy I have is to be myself. Pretending to be what you are not is never a good strategy.
When I was younger, I tried every pick up line and every strategy in the book. They never, ever worked. Quality women see through that shit all the time. In fact, if I could go back in time and meet my younger self, I’d smack him silly. Then, I’d tell him what numbers to play in every big lottery jackpot.
Don't lie about yourself, either. Eventually, you will be found out. Then, she won't trust you and rightfully so. It's a very small world, whether you've realized this or not, and word travels fast. If you lie to a woman or play games with a woman's heart, it WILL get out and you'll be branded a liar. Then, your chances of getting any will be cut by 90% or more.
Playing games is never a good thing so I don’t play them. That advice goes for women as well as men. In fact, everything I’m writing here goes for both genders. Being yourself works, unless you’re an idiot and you know it. If that’s the case, lie your ass off and start trying to become a better person.
One of my basic rules is that if the woman doesn't like you, move on. No definitely means no. You've asked a stupid question once, maybe pressed your luck twice just to be sure she's not playing some "hard to get" game and she still says no to whatever you're looking for? Then absolutely move on. There are plenty of other women out there if you have the patience. Never look or act desperate. You do stupid things or worse when you are. Don't be THAT guy. Quench your thirst elsewhere.
If a woman’s just cock teasing you to get drinks or something materialistic out of you, definitely move on immediately before you go broke. That woman is someone who’s into manipulating, is definitely not trustworthy, and is completely not worth the time. Besides, she thinks that you’re stupid and has zero respect for you so why bother? The good ones don’t need to manipulate. In fact, the only way I'd get with a woman like that is if I know I'm going to get some sex out of it. 9 times out of 10, though, you won't. She's just using you to fund her night out. Move on.
I always like women who know what they want and don’t have to play games. Women know pretty much immediately if they’re going to sleep with you or not; whether they admit it or not. Game playing, by either a man or a woman, should not enter into the equation. If it does, move on. Games are for little kids. Don't be one. Always be childlike; never childish.
