Sunday, July 19, 2015

Game Playing and Chasing

This is really the only comfortable way to pla...
This is really the only comfortable way to play a Virtual Boy: supine, with a sock on your nose. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
I'm not one to chase or to go after someone who's playing hard to get. I look at chasing in a couple different ways. Playing hard to get is a form of manipulation, plain and simple. You're twisting someone's emotions in order to get the response that you desire. It could be in the form of being a straight up cock tease (the ones who go to the club and lead guys on so that they can get free drinks or drugs) or it could be manipulating a person in hopes that the person will want what they can't have at the moment; thus, making you more desirable. Either way, it makes you not trustworthy and trust is a huge thing with me.

Playing hard to get is just playing games. Games are for kids and I don't play games. Life's too short to play around like that and too many people waste their time doing it. I'm straight up and was brought up to be that way. If I'm interested in you sexually, I'll let you know. If I'm interested in you emotionally, I'll let you know. You'll always know where you stand with me. There's never a need to chase.